What Has Happened To Good Old Fashioned Courtship..?
I am wondering whether i will ever find a genuine man who will take time to get to know and love me before he expects to have an intimate relationship with me as all the men who have contacted me so far is wanting intimacy from the start and i find that difficult to understand.


I TAKE TIME
Submitted by casper on Wed, 30/06/2010 - 05:32.I am a true romantic i believe in waiting until the lady in question is ready i show the lady my romantic nature treat them, the way they should be treated we would talk about all the different
things that that person needs to know to have that person feeling comfortable with things
if the women dosen't want intimacy i will not push it and would let them know i would wait until she was ready it would be alright with me
Hi
Submitted by Divagirl (not verified) on Wed, 22/06/2011 - 19:03.@Genuine
I think all men are hard wired to want sex.They are focused on it.The few who are patient will leave if they don't get it sooner or later.We on the other hand want to feel loved as opposed to just feeling used.They don't get it,but they are selfish.Unless you want to make the big switch you're stuck with them.
Try the friendship route,just be buddies,let him get to know you.Then if you like him give in.Men can settle for sex only,we need love and sex,they don't get it.But...there are a few exceptions I've been told...odd how I've never met one.